اثربخشی مشاوره‌ی سیستمی بوئن بر بخشش و کاهش دلزدگی زناشویی در زنان ناسازگار

فصلنامه زن و جامعه

مقاله 13، دوره 9، شماره 36، بهمن 1397، صفحه 275-290   

نوع مقاله: مقاله پژوهشی

نویسندگان

آرزو مجرد^{* 1}؛ حسین قمری گیوی²؛ احمدرضا کیانی³

¹کارشناسی ارشد مشاوره خانواده، دانشکده علوم تربیتی و روان‌شناسی، دانشگاه محقق اردبیلی، اردبیل، ایران

²استاد گروه مشاوره و علوم تربیتی، دانشکده علوم تربیتی و روان‌شناسی، دانشگاه محقق اردبیلی، اردبیل، ایران

³استادیار گروه مشاوره و علوم تربیتی، دانشکده علوم تربیتی و روان‌شناسی، دانشگاه محقق اردبیلی، اردبیل، ایران

تاریخ دریافت: 24 آبان 1396،  تاریخ بازنگری: 11 آبان 1397،  تاریخ پذیرش: 13 بهمن 1397 

چکیده

هدف پژوهش حاضر بررسی اثربخشی مشاوره­ی سیستمی بوئن بر بخشش و دلزدگی زناشویی در زنان ناسازگار بود. طرح پژوهش نیمه­آزمایشی و از نوع پیش­آزمون – پس­آزمون چندگروهی بود. جامعه آماری شامل تمام زنانی را شامل می­شد که به منظور طلاق در سال 1395 به دادگستری شهر اردبیل مراجعه کرده بودند. نمونه­ی پژوهش شامل 30 زن ناسازگار (متقاضی طلاق) بود که به روش نمونه­گیری در دسترس انتخاب و به روش تصادفی در دو گروه، شامل یک گروه آزمایشی و یک گروه کنترل (هرگروه 15 نفر) گمارده شدند. جهت جمع­آوری اطلاعات از پرسشنامه­های بخشش (Rye, 1998) و دلزدگی زناشویی (Pines, 2004) استفاده شد. برای گروه­ آزمایشی مشاوره سیستمی بوئن در 7 جلسه یک و نیم ساعته برگزار شد در حالی که گروه کنترل هیچ­گونه مداخله­ای را دریافت نکردند. برای هر دو گروه، پیش­آزمون و پس­آزمون یک هفته قبل و یک هفته بعد از ارائه­ی مشاوره انجام شد. نتایج تحلیل کوواریانس نشان داد که مشاوره­ی سیستمی بوئن به طور معناداری موجب افزایش میزان بخشش و کاهش دلزدگی زناشویی و ابعاد آن شامل خستگی جسمی، خستگی عاطفی، خستگی روانی در زنان ناسازگار می­شود (01/0<p). این نتایج می­تواند پشتوانه­ای برای به­کارگیری روش­ مشاوره­ی سیستمی بوئن در کاهش دلزدگی زناشویی و افزایش میزان بخشش در زنان ناسازگار باشد تا بدین وسیله علاوه بر مانع شدن از فروپاشی بنیان خانواده، باعث بهبود روابط زناشویی شد.

کلیدواژه‌ها

مشاوره‌ی سیستمی بوئن؛ بخشش؛ دلزدگی زناشویی؛ زنان ناسازگار

عنوان مقاله [English]

Effectiveness Bowen Systemic Consulting on forgiveness and marital burnout in maladaptive women

نویسندگان [English]

Arezoo Mojarrad¹؛ Hosein Ghamarigivi²؛ Ahmadreza kiani³

¹Mohaghegh Ardabili University

²Mohaghegh Ardabili University

³Mohaghegh Ardabili University

چکیده [English]

The purpose of this study was to survey Effectiveness of Bowen Systemic Consulting on forgiveness and marital burnout in maladaptive women. The method of research was Quasi-experimental and pretest – posttest with multi groups. The statistical population included all women who were referred to the Justice Department in Ardabil in order to divorce in 2016. The sample consisted of 30 non-compliant women (divorce applicant) were selected by available sampling method and random assigned to two groups, one experimental group and one control group (each group was 15). From questionnaires forgiveness (Rey, 1998) and marital burnout (Pines, 2004) was used to collect information. For experiment group, Bowen Systemic Consulting were held in 7 sessions in one and a half hours whereas control groups did not receive any training. For both of groups, pre-test and post-test were performed one week before and one week after counseling. The results of covariance analysis showed that Bowen Systemic Consulting significantly increased the amount of forgiveness and decreased marital burnout and its dimensions include physical exhaustion, emotional exhaustion, and mental exhaustion in maladaptive women (p>0/01). These results can be backed up to use Bowen Systemic Consulting method to reduce marital burnout and increase the amount of forgiveness in Incompatible women. In this way, in addition to preventing the collapse of the family foundation, it improved marital relations.

کلیدواژه‌ها [English]

Bowen Systemic Consulting, forgiveness, marital burnout, incompatible women

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