پیش‌بینی انتظار از ازدواج بر اساس سبک‌های دلبستگی و ویژگی‌های شخصیتی

فصلنامه زن و جامعه

مقاله 9، دوره 10، شماره 40، دی 1398، صفحه 223-244   

نوع مقاله: مقاله پژوهشی

نویسندگان

رحمان آرمیده¹؛ سیمین دخت رضاخانی^{* 2}

¹دانش آموخته گروه مشاوره ، واحد رودهن ، دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی ، رودهن، ایران

²استادیار گروه مشاوره ،واحد رودهن ،دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی ، رودهن،ایران.

تاریخ دریافت: 13 اسفند 1397،  تاریخ بازنگری: 09 آذر 1398،  تاریخ پذیرش: 05 بهمن 1398 

چکیده

پژوهش حاضر با هدف پیش‌بینی انتظار از ازدواج بر اساس ویژگی‌های شخصیتی و سبک‌های دلبستگی در دختران مجرد دانشجوی کارشناسی دانشگاه تهران در نیم­سال دوم سال تحصیلی 1397-1396 انجام شد. در این پژوهش که ‌از نوع همبستگی بود از بین جامعه،  240 نفر به روش نمونه‌گیری تصادفی چند مرحله‌ای انتخاب شدند. شرکت­کنندگان به پرسش­نامه‌های ویژگی‌های شخصیتی مک کرا و کاستا(1985)، سبک‌های دلبستگی هازن و شیور(1987) و انتظار از ازدواج جونز و نلسون(1996) پاسخ دادند. نتایج به‌دست آمده با استفاده از ضریب همبستگی پیرسون و رگرسیون چند متغیری سلسله مراتبی نشان داد که سبک‌های دلبستگی می‌توانند 7/43 درصد از انتظار واقع‌گرایانه ، 7/16 درصد از انتظار ایده‌ال‌گرایانه و10درصد از انتظار بدبینانه به ازدواج را پیش‌بینی کنند. هم­چنین ویژگی‌های شخصیتی می‌توانند 5/4 درصد از انتظار واقع‌گرایانه ، 8/5 درصد از انتظار ایده‌ال‌گرایانه و 6/5 درصد انتظار بدبینانه از ازدواج را پیش‌بینی کنند. هر دو متغیر سبک‌های دلبستگی و ویژگی‌های شخصیتی در مجموع می‌توانند 2/48 درصد از انتظار واقع‌گرایانه، 5/22درصد از انتظار ایده‌آل‌گرایانه و 6/15درصد از انتظار بدبینانه از ازدواج را در گروه نمونه پیش‌بینی کنند.

کلیدواژه‌ها

سبک‌های دلبستگی؛ ‌ویژگی‌های شخصیتی؛ ‌انتظار از ازدواج

عنوان مقاله [English]

Expectation of marriage based on attachment styles and personality traits

نویسندگان [English]

Rahman Aramideh¹؛ simindokht RezaKhani²

¹MA student of counseling Department,Roudehen Branch, Islamic Azad University, Roudehen ,Iran

²Department of Counseling, Roudehen Branch,Islamic Azad University,Roudehen,Iran.

چکیده [English]

Rahman Aramideh,Simindokht Rezakhani(corresponding Author) [e-mail]
The purpose of this study was to predict the expectation of marriage based on personality traits and attachment styles in single girls undergraduate students at Tehran University in the second semester of the academic year 1397-1396. In this research, which was correlational, 240 people were selected through multi-stage random sampling. Participants responded to McCrae and Costa's Personality Character Questionnaire (1985), Hazen and Sheaver Attachment Styles (1987), and the expectations of Jones and Nelson (1996) marriage. The results obtained using Pearson correlation coefficient and hierarchical multivariate regression showed that attachment styles can predict 43.7% of the realistic expectations, 16.7% of the ideological expectations and 10% of the pessimistic expectation of marriage. Personality traits can also predict 4.5% of realistic expectations, 5.8% of the idealist expectations and 5.6% of pessimistic expectations of marriage. Both variables of attachment styles and personality traits can expect 48.4% of realistic expectations, 22.5% of idealistic expectations and 15.6% of pessimistic expectations of marriage in the sample group.

کلیدواژه‌ها [English]

Attachment styles, personality traits, Waiting for marriage

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