مطالعه پدیدارشناسانه دلایل گرایش به ارتباط با جنس مخالف قبل از ازدواج

فصلنامه زن و جامعه

دوره 11، شماره 44، بهمن 1399، صفحه 1-30   

نوع مقاله: مقاله پژوهشی

نویسندگان

مسلم امیری^{* 1}؛ رامین حبیبی کلیبر²؛ ابوالفضل فرید³

¹دانشجوی دکتری روان شناسی تربیتی دانشگاه شهید مدنی آذربایجان-تبریز

²عضو هیئت علمی دانشگاه شهید مدنی آذربایجان

³عضو هیات علمی دانشگاه شهید مدنی آذربایجان

تاریخ دریافت: 15 اسفند 1398،  تاریخ بازنگری: 24 مهر 1399،  تاریخ پذیرش: 08 دی 1399 

چکیده

برقراری رابطه دوستی با جنس مخالف، به دلیل اثرات فردی و اجتماعی این پدیده، امروزه بیش از پیش مورد توجه روان­شناسان و جامعه­شناسان قرار گرفته است. هدف این پژوهش، واکاوی دلایل گرایش به ارتباط با جنس مخالف قبل از ازدواج در میان دانشجویان دانشگاه بود. این پژوهش، مطالعه­ای کیفی از نوع پدیدارشناسی است که با استفاده از مصاحبه نیمه ­ساختار یافته اجرا شد. نمونه­ها شامل 18 نفر از دانشجویان کارشناسی دانشگاه شهید مدنی آذربایجان در سال تحصیلی 98-1397 بود که با به کارگیری اشباع نظری در تعیین حجم نمونه و به روش نمونه­گیری گلوله برفی به دست آمد. در این پژوهش 8 مضمون اصلی و 25 مضمون فرعی استخراج شدند که مضامین اصلی عبارتند از: خلاء عاطفی، تربیتی- تغییرات ناگزیر اجتماعی، فرهنگی-رسانه­های جمعی-دین­گریزی-پاسخ به نیاز درونی-ویژگی­های شخصیتی-فشارهای محیطی و دوستان و سیستم آموزشی ناکارآمد. یافته­های این پژوهش، ضرورت توجه نهادهای مسئول تربیتی-فرهنگی کشور، خانواده­ها و افراد متخصص و دلسوزِ فعال در این زمینه به تجربیات زیسته برآمده از چنین پژوهش­هایی، آگاه سازی آحاد جامعه توسط نهادهای مسئول در زمینه آسیب­های ناشی از ارتباط ناسالم و آموزش شیوه­های برقراری ارتباط سالم را بیش از پیش آشکار می­سازد.

کلیدواژه‌ها

رویکرد پدیدارشناسی؛ ارتباط با جنس مخالف؛ دانشجو

عنوان مقاله [English]

A Phenomenological Study of the Reasons of tendency to Relationship with the opposite sex before marriage

نویسندگان [English]

moslem amiri¹؛ Ramin Habibi-Kaleybar²؛ abolfazl farid³

¹phd student of Educational Psychology , Shahid Madani University of Azerbaijan-Tabriz

²Education

³education

چکیده [English]

Relationship with the opposite sex, due to the individual and social effects of this phenomenon, have become more and more popular among psychologists and sociologists today. The purpose of this study was to investigate the reasons for tendency to Relationship with the opposite sex before marriage among college students. This is a qualitative phenomenological study conducted using semi-structured interviews. The sample consisted of 18 undergraduate students of Shahid Madani University of Azerbaijan in the academic year of 1397-98. The theoretical saturation was determined by using snowball sampling method. In this study eight main themes and 25 sub-themes were extracted that main themes are: Emotional, educational vacuum-Inevitable social, cultural changes-mass media-Escaping religion-Respond to the inner need-Personality characteristics-Environmental pressures and friends and Inefficient education system. The findings of this study, show that educational and cultural authorities of the country, responsible , families and professionals and active sympathizers to pay attention to the lived experiences of such researches, the awareness of the community by the authorities responsible for the trauma Unhealthy communications and education reveal more healthy ways of communicating.

کلیدواژه‌ها [English]

Phenomenological approach, Relationship with the opposite sex, Student

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